Lovely painting by Dan-ah Kim, http://dan-ah.tumblr.com/

A Brief History of One-Night Stands

I’m not very good at being a slut. I don’t dislike jumping right into things, it’s just that I have trouble forgetting people. Even if I don’t want to turn them into a boyfriend or regular lover, our experience together

Lovely painting by Dan-ah Kim, http://dan-ah.tumblr.com/

A Brief History of One-Night Stands

I’m not very good at being a slut. I don’t dislike jumping right into things, it’s just that I have trouble forgetting people. Even if I don’t want to turn them into a boyfriend or regular lover, our experience together

Surrogate Boyfriends

My social calendar has been out of control as of late. For the first time in a long time, I have guy friends (lots of them) – and I love them! In my last relationship, I always used to lament

Surrogate Boyfriends

My social calendar has been out of control as of late. For the first time in a long time, I have guy friends (lots of them) – and I love them! In my last relationship, I always used to lament

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GAYting

One of the most interesting things about dating in San Francisco (from a straight female perspective) is how often women get into mishaps misreading the sexuality of men. Living on the SF peninsula is akin to living on the LOST

fag hag

GAYting

One of the most interesting things about dating in San Francisco (from a straight female perspective) is how often women get into mishaps misreading the sexuality of men. Living on the SF peninsula is akin to living on the LOST

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Fast Forward

Whenever the topic of “moving in together” comes up, I always say the same thing: DO IT. If you are thinking seriously enough about someone to want to pursue domestic bliss, then you should not waste any more time. BUT

Two-Rooms-Apartment-04

Fast Forward

Whenever the topic of “moving in together” comes up, I always say the same thing: DO IT. If you are thinking seriously enough about someone to want to pursue domestic bliss, then you should not waste any more time. BUT

UpDATE

I went on two dates with airplane man, and thanks to his incredible honesty, learned one hour into the first date that he is recently divorced, the father of two AND has a degenerative illness — all of which, I

UpDATE

I went on two dates with airplane man, and thanks to his incredible honesty, learned one hour into the first date that he is recently divorced, the father of two AND has a degenerative illness — all of which, I

Game On

After a six month break from the dating game, I’m back in. My spirits are high, my tolerance for bull-shit low, and I am confident that this new chapter in my romantic life will be a good one. I have

Game On

After a six month break from the dating game, I’m back in. My spirits are high, my tolerance for bull-shit low, and I am confident that this new chapter in my romantic life will be a good one. I have

Making a list, Checking it twice

When it comes to dating, everyone’s got a list. I want this, I don’t want that, is what women say. And to them, I have a piece of advice: throw away your list and make a new one.

Making a list, Checking it twice

When it comes to dating, everyone’s got a list. I want this, I don’t want that, is what women say. And to them, I have a piece of advice: throw away your list and make a new one.